kelc monsterr.

It’s much easier to go through the phase of “waiting for the right guy” when u have guy friends. Why have a mediocre guy or relationship that u don’t like to feel good about yourself. It’s so much better to have friends who understand you with little words, appreciate u and where you’ve been, and bring you up along the way. And you know that they are really genuine. It’s comforting. And means a lot when they compliment you. My guy friends are extremely valuable. They’ll never know how much.

“This week, I hadn’t been focusing on my problems and doing my best to correct them. This week, I’d been thinking of her; I’d committed myself to helping her with family responsibilities, I’d listen with interest whenever she spoke and everything we discussed seemed new. I’d laughed at her jokes and held her as she cried, apologized for my faults and showed her the affection she both needed and deserved. In other words, I’d been the man she’d always wanted, the man I once had been, and —like and old habit rediscovered —I now understood that it was all I ever needed to do for us to begin enjoying each other’s company again.”
-The Wedding by Nicholas Sparks page 192